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Sunday, 04 May 2008

Take hold of every moment

Moment...whats that? It has many meanings actually....moment can be also used in business...but I will make it connect with Time.....A moment, in context with time, is an indefinitely short period of time. Sometimes defined as zero seconds long, but perhaps better defined as an infinitesimal part of a second --or minute, hour, day, etc. For me, a moment is as important as life does!

Every time we go out for to shopping, to play, to gather, to eat together....there is always the sweet moments you will have with your family and friends. Remember! No matter how many times you copied the exact event, it will not repeat!So we must appreciate every moment!As for me, I used photos to record my diary or as my visual diary but it also serve with another purpose.....to keep the moments that we had~Sometimes its a bit hyper active...but it will finally make people smile^^

As I said from the previous posts, people changes and people grow and everyday is a different thing!So, if you appreciate the moment, you will have a happy life! For example.....maybe you will see the same person everyday...24 hours a day! But every moments makes the person a different person...maybe you will get bored with him/her for a period of time.....but then you will realized that the moments you had with her/him is very precious~

Take hold of every moment, don't let it go to waste! don't just think that every day was a boring day!

Try apply this to your own life, you will be happier!
There is always TIME!!

Now I have spoken about sand glasses and life as it was as fragile as the glass. Now lets just focus at Time!! Well, we conquer our own time but with just a blink of an eye Time passes that fast!!

For me, there is a time and a place for everything for joy or for grief.

This is how I define TIME as part of my life:
A time limit for pain as there is for happiness. As You need time to achieve happiness~
....Wisdom comes when you understand the time has changed. The time limit is up.
...Letting go is the most difficult mental and emotional action, for every human being, in every corner of this planet.
Time...It is the greatest lesson you will ever have to grasp.
There is no hurry. Life is not a race. And You don't need to race your life with others!
All that is required is decision and commitment.

How you interpret the experiences of your life, determines your feelings and outcomes, and thats why time is important!~ Time cannot repeat itself....once it flows...all was left was the Past...and you cannot travel back!!

So, Your life is what YOU make of it.

Live it fully, with dignity, passion, honesty, love, common sense, integrity, truth, and lots and lots of laughs!^^ muahaha
Why do you think that your are being left alone?

Sometimes I always wonder...am I alone...or why am I alone? To tell you the truth...actually I am thinking too much.... In everydays life, we cannot fulfill our needs and it cannot end....we have friends but you wanted it more...but eventually you are being left alone....Think....here is what I do....

You will be left alone wondering what on earth you did "wrong"!
You cannot buy love. You cannot make anyone love you.

No one can complete you, you can only find that within yourself.
Everyone spends their life looking for the "perfect" relationship. There is no such thing.

People change. People grow. People move on, even soul mates sometimes.
Letting go is inevitable whether you want to or not.

So, when you are being left alone, its time for you to think, it always leads to a positive ending...only that we have to find it ourselves...so, sometimes Its not that you are alone...its people are busy or have other else to do...so, don't worry too much! >.<

Sometimes it feels easier to stay in that rut than committing to the challenge of climbing out of it. Have you become comfortable being sad, being angry, being violent, being sick, being addicted, being depressed, being dependant, settling for less than you know you deserve and can be? Do you agree?^^
Whom you gonna protect?

Soon I will be a degree level student!! Wee.....The greatest part in my life is I will encounter more new problems and challenges........okay...back to what I wanna say... hehe

I am watching a Korean Drama that day and I have been inspired by this question, "Who you are gonna protect?"...and I kept thinking and I came out with my own opinions...

Since we were little...our safety is always our parents priority.....once you grow up, you learn how to protect yourself....but In certain times...you feel like you wanna protect someone...who? Here is my opinions,

1. Your parents:
Well, your parents is the main reason that why were you here today!Once you have grown up, you must protect them in any situation, at least just remember them!

2. The person that you loved:
So not the drama....you always look at the drama and the man actor always say I will always protect the girl he loves but then protecting the person you loved is the best way to maintain your relationship. If the woman founds that you don't have the power to protect her, she may just leave you!

3. Your companions:
Your friends motivates you, gives you advices and guides you everywhere you go...well not everything frankly..hehe but protecting your friend is one of the largest sacrifices you can make for your friend.

In this matter, the word "protect" is not used to cover your friends lies or secrets..! But to protect it from your heart!
Remember, It doesn't matter if you are short, ugly or fat...but the power of protecting others is the greatest sacrifice! People will eventually feel the security provided by you and they will put faith and trust in you~ Thats the magnificent power to protect others!

Friday, 25 April 2008

Choose to be Happier!

Well, as we know...happiness is a state of being that you choose.

In my opinion~ This is what I think ^^

No one can force you to feel that way.
Wherever you are, whatever you are doing, it is a choice to feel this way...or not.

Sometimes, people cause us to feel upset due to what they said or did to us.
When this happens, you have a right to feel hurt.
However, you must not allow yourself to be in that pain for a long period of time.
Learn from the experience and LET IT GO.

No matter how cruel, selfish, ignorant or cold the person that hurt you,
whether intentionally or unintentionally, the event happened for you to learn and grow from.
Staying in pain inside yourself will age you beyond your years and cause illness and suffering to yourself. Nothing will change what happened.

Nothing will change the other person until they experience the same pain they caused. What goes around comes around, as they will learn one day...